"White people want to start with strategy. White people want the answer, but it has to emerge."
– Resmaa Menakem
What should I do?
You should get intimate with other White people.
But what should I do?
You should develop your awareness.
But what should I do?
You should self-reflect on how you perpetuate racism.
But what should I do?
You should evolve your consciousness.
But what should I do?
You should unlearn what you've been taught – or not taught – about what racism actually is, how it manifests, and how it negatively impacts people of all races.
But what should I do?
You should examine who you were, who you are, who you're becoming, why you care, what you need to learn, and what's your role in the struggle.
But what should I do?
You should challenge your White family members, friends, colleagues, and community members and stay present in uncomfortable conversations.
But what should I do?
You should create a new normal for yourself – intentionally surround yourself with non-White perspectives, books, news, and media.
But what should I do?
You should stop asking what you should do, and start asking who you should be.
But I know who I am.
You should dismantle who you think you are, and become who really are.
But that might take a long time.
Exactly.