At the age of twenty, Jared Karol finally told his best friend his father was gay. Her response? “Big fucking deal!” And the journey began. Years of interrogating why he had been ashamed of having a gay dad led to a lifelong interrogation of the mother of all -isms: racism.
In A White Guy Confronting Racism, Jared invites us to join him on his always-unfolding evolution of consciousness—sharing stories of shedding, dismantling, and unlearning much of what he was taught (or not taught) about race and racism growing up. Told through beautifully written longer narrative pieces and compelling shorter vignettes, what emerges from these stories is the inescapable realization that the racial reckoning he has undertaken is the racial reckoning we all must undertake if we have any hope of ending racism.
A White Guy Confronting Racism is a clear call to action for White people who are newly awakened to the racial injustices that Black people and other people of color have been facing for hundreds of years. But this is not a “how to” book. Rather than tell us what to do, Jared invites and challenges us to do the deep, vulnerable, self-reflective work of figuring who we want to be in the racial justice struggle—trusting that “what to do” will emerge from there.
Part confessional and part manifesto, A White Guy Confronting Racism at its core declares an unwavering commitment to seeing the humanity in all people. Because, as Tarana Burke says, "I don’t believe your antiracist work is complete or valid or useful if you haven’t engaged with Black humanity.” So, are you engaging with Black humanity?